Thanks For Being Here - How to Help When it Matters Most
Jan 19, 2025
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Dr. Aliza Pressman, a therapist and author of "The Five Principles of Parenting," discusses ways to support those affected by the recent LA fires. She emphasizes the profound impact of simple connections, like thoughtful check-ins, during crises. The conversation dives into the complexities of navigating emotional responses and the importance of empathy. They also touch on balancing news consumption and mental health, advocating for intentional communication and being present for loved ones when it matters most.
Simple gestures of support, such as thoughtful check-ins, can significantly uplift those affected by crises without the pressure of immediate responses.
Recognizing and validating diverse emotional reactions during traumatic events is crucial for fostering open communication and genuine support.
Deep dives
Revolutionizing Health Monitoring
A handheld device called Lumen offers a new way to monitor metabolic health by assessing whether the body is burning fats or carbohydrates. Users simply breathe into the device each morning, which then connects to a companion app that generates personalized nutrition plans. This innovative technology allows individuals to understand their metabolism in real time, enhancing their approach to health and fitness. The ability to track metabolic status before and after meals or workouts provides valuable insights into how lifestyle choices affect overall wellbeing.
Emotional Responses to Crisis
In times of crisis, such as natural disasters, individuals experience varying emotional responses, even within the same household. It is essential to allow for the coexistence of different feelings, recognizing that each person's reaction is valid and unique. Encouraging open communication can help individuals process their thoughts and emotions without judgment. Providing support means being present without pushing any specific perspective, allowing everyone involved to navigate their feelings in their own time.
The Importance of Thoughtful Outreach
During crises, the intention behind outreach can greatly impact those affected. It is vital to reach out to loved ones with simple messages of care, avoiding pressure to respond immediately. Checking in without expectations can significantly uplift someone facing adversity, reminding them they are not alone. Additionally, it's crucial to remember that responses may vary, and being persistent yet sensitive in support can help those in distress feel valued and understood.
Navigating Media Consumption Wisely
Conscious consumption of news and media is essential, especially during traumatic events that can overwhelm one's emotional capacity. Limit exposure to distressing images, as they can have lasting impacts and trigger anxiety, especially in young children. Balancing awareness of the situation while also recognizing the positive stories that emerge during crises can foster hope. Intentionality in how much and what type of information is consumed helps maintain mental wellbeing and supports a more productive mindset.
Kelly and therapist friend Dr. Aliza Pressman explore how we can best support those affected by the LA fires. After witnessing the devastation firsthand, they share wisdom about the power of simple connection – how a thoughtful check-in or just being present can make a real difference, and remind us that there's no "right" way to respond to crisis. The episode wraps up with Kelly reading Ellen Bass' moving poem "The Thing Is," offering comfort and hope. For those seeking ways to help or needing support, messages are welcome at hello@kellycorrigan.com.