Undaunted.Life: A Man's Podcast by Kyle Thompson NICOLE WILKE | How to Make Our Kids Resilient (Ep. 740)
Apr 8, 2025
Nicole Wilke, a dedicated child welfare researcher and marriage and family therapist, discusses vital strategies for fostering resilience in children. She shares insights from her work in Peru, emphasizing the importance of distinguishing trauma from normal stress. Nicole critiques 'snowplow parenting,' arguing it hinders kids' ability to face challenges. She also highlights how adversity can build strength and identity, and encourages parents to create supportive relationships that help children navigate life's obstacles.
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Nicole's Bedridden Teen Story
- Nicole Wilke experienced extreme illness as a teen that left her bedridden for two years.
- This hardship became a stepping stone for ministry and personal growth in her life.
Resilience Over Strength
- Resilience is the ability to overcome obstacles and emerge stronger, not just bounce back.
- Unlike strength, resilience builds cumulatively over time, making it a more valuable trait.
Give Kids Progressive Challenges
- Intentionally expose kids to progressive challenges like mountain hiking or chores.
- Use adversity to build their confidence and resilience through supportive coaching and encouragement.
