This is Love

The Collection

Sep 16, 2026
Bill Stobie, a retired correctional worker and Ottawa art collector, has filled his apartment with 1,300 works, many by local and queer artists. After a terminal cancer diagnosis, he launches “Project Mode Death,” making plans for his collection, funeral, and final days. Then an unexpected remission changes everything, while his art finds new life in an exhibition.
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ANECDOTE

Bill Stobie Filled His Apartment With Art

  • Bill Stobie’s 1,300-piece collection filled every wall, bathroom, and doorway of his two-bedroom apartment.
  • After coming out, he increasingly bought queer art that reflected the community and life he was embracing.
ANECDOTE

A Cancer Diagnosis Changed Bill’s Timeline

  • A general practitioner promised Bill Stobie’s liver cancer could be surgically removed, but an oncologist told him it was terminal and incurable.
  • The doctor estimated 18 months, forcing Bill to rethink his future immediately.
ADVICE

Turn Limited Time Into A Practical Project

  • Bill Stobie entered “project mode,” organizing medical assistance in dying, funeral plans, family communication, and practical help.
  • He focused on meaningful time with important people rather than creating a conventional bucket list.
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