

"You Just Want a Roommate That You Can Sleep With"
Aug 6, 2025
A couple navigates the tricky waters of finances while considering moving in together, revealing parallels to marriage dynamics. They delve into the challenges of cohabiting before marriage, discussing potential pitfalls that could impact their relationship and finances. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding legal and emotional benefits that come with marriage, alongside the value of pre-marriage counseling to build strong foundations.
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Avoid Unmarried Cohabitation
- Avoid moving in together without being married, as financial and relational issues arise.
- Instead, focus on clear financial boundaries and communication before cohabitation.
Address Relationship Financial Fears
- Address relationship red flags openly, especially feeling used financially.
- Discuss feelings of safety and fairness before deciding to live together.
Choose Marriage Over Cohabitation
- Reset your approach by focusing on engagement and marriage before cohabitation.
- Marriage provides legal, financial, and relational clarity for a stronger future.