How to Avoid Probate and Protect Your Family

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In this episode of Comforting Closure - Conversations with a Death Doula, host Traci Arieli speaks with estate planning attorney Jeannette Marsala about probate, why it is so common, and how families can best avoid it with thoughtful planning. 

Together, they discuss what probate is, how people often end up in court even when they believe they planned ahead, and why a will alone is often not enough. Jeannette explains how living trusts work, the small details that frequently cause estate plans to fail, and the practical steps families can take to keep their loved ones out of probate court. 

The conversation also addresses the emotional side of estate planning. Traci and Jeannette talk openly about the fear that keeps many people from starting, the stress families face after a death, and how planning ahead can reduce confusion and conflict during grief. 

Topics covered include: 

• What probate is and why it can take months or longer 
• The difference between a will and a trust 
• How living trusts help families avoid probate 
• Common mistakes that send families to court 
• What to look for when choosing an estate attorney 
• Why planning early matters, especially before illness or loss of capacity 

This episode is intended for both professionals and everyday listeners. It normalizes conversations about aging, death, and planning, while offering clear and compassionate guidance that families can use in real life. 

Links and Resources
Guest: Jeannette Marsala, Estate Planning Attorney - https://sanjoselivingtrust.com 

Host: Traci Arieli - https://www.comfortingclosure.com 

 
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