
New Books Network Paula Bomer, "The Stalker" (Soho Books, 2025)
Nov 12, 2025
Paula Bomer, acclaimed author of *The Stalker*, dives into her gripping novel about the complexities of stalking and privilege. She reveals the journey of creating her protagonist Dodie, shifting from a victim-centered narrative to one that humanizes an antagonist. Bomer touches on the impact of MeToo and the intersections of gendered violence and class entitlement. With a blend of dark humor and serious themes, she explores how societal norms enable predation and connects these issues to her own writing process.
AI Snips
Chapters
Books
Transcript
Episode notes
Tight Third-Person Creates Intimacy
- Paula Bomer uses a tight third-person voice that remains closely tied to Doty to create claustrophobic intimacy without full first-person immersion.
- She found the narrative voice by process of elimination and says voice discovery unlocked fast drafting.
Voice Shift From Victim To Perpetrator
- Paula Bomer started writing a different book, Gaslit, from a female victim's POV but couldn't make it work and pivoted after an 'aha' to Doty's voice.
- Once she found Doty's voice, the first draft flowed quickly for her.
Editor Humanized The Devil Figure
- Bomer initially imagined Doty as satanic but her editor Mark Doughton humanized him and cut grand allegory elements.
- She leaned into human flaws like family Catholicism rather than literal devilry.



















