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Is marriage dying? | Richard Reeves

Oct 14, 2025
Richard Reeves, a Senior Fellow at the Brookings Institution, dives into the complex landscape of marriage in America today. He explores the legacy of the women's movement and its transformation of marriage from a necessity to a choice. Reeves highlights the growing class divide, showing that college-educated individuals still marry while lower-income groups face declining rates. He argues for the importance of strong relationships over marital status, envisioning a future where marriage is redefined by egalitarian values and committed parenting.
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Multiple Drivers Behind Marriage

  • Marriage historically combined religion, romance, economics, and status as motivations for union.
  • These mixed motives explain why marriage patterns shifted as society changed.
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Women's Economic Freedom Changed Marriage

  • The old marriage model rested on female economic dependency and male provision.
  • The women's movement dismantled that dependency, making marriage a choice rather than necessity.
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Women Hold More Exit Power

  • Women now have significant exit power in marriage and file for divorce twice as often as men.
  • This reflects greater agency and the ability to leave unhealthy marriages.
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