ZigZag S4 EP10: This is What a Male Identity Crisis Sounds Like
Jul 18, 2019
Khe Hy, a former finance executive and the creator of RadReads, shared his transformative journey after leaving a high-paying job to redefine success. He candidly discusses the anxiety that accompanied his departure from Wall Street and the impact of his immigrant upbringing on his views about money and success. With support from his wife, Khe embarked on an 18-month exploration of work-life balance, confronting fears of irrelevance, and finding fulfillment through writing and personal growth. He also shares practical exercises to help others redefine their relationship with money.
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Leaving A High-Paying Finance Job
- Khe Hy spent 14 years in high-paying hedge fund research roles before quitting BlackRock.
- He enjoyed autonomy and pay but felt low-grade anxiety and dissatisfaction despite material success.
Money Doesn't Cure Existential Anxiety
- Raises and bonuses gave Khe brief happiness but never removed his underlying anxiety.
- He realized money didn't resolve meaning, curiosity about tech and culture pulled him elsewhere.
Spousal Agreement And Ground Rules
- Khe discussed the decision with his wife and set ground rules before leaving his job.
- She trusted his skills but insisted he mustn't panic about small purchases or money constantly.
