Remi Bader, a model and TikTok sensation known for her honest clothing hauls, shares her candid journey through body image struggles and discrimination in the fashion industry. She reveals the emotional toll of a humiliating experience at a Hamptons ranch and discusses her path to outpatient treatment for an eating disorder. Over some wine, Remi shares wild dating stories, including a mishap that led to costly water damage. With humor and authenticity, she emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and challenges conventional beauty standards in both dating and fashion.
Remi Bader discusses the societal pressures and discrimination she's faced as a model, stressing the need for greater inclusivity in fashion.
She openly shares her struggle with an eating disorder and the importance of seeking help, highlighting the significance of mental health.
Remi reflects on her dating experiences shaped by her newfound online visibility, showcasing the complexities of relationships in the age of social media.
Deep dives
The Journey to Finding Purpose
Remy Vater reflects on her career journey, illustrating how the pandemic inspired her to pivot towards social media after losing her job in the music industry. Initially participating in TikTok for fun, she recorded realistic clothing hauls that resonated with viewers, particularly those seeking relatable content. The unexpected success of her hauls led her to realize she could influence representations of body images in fashion. This transition marked the beginning of her journey towards embracing confidence and body positivity, fueled by the encouragement of her audience.
Facing Body Image Challenges
Throughout the conversation, Remy discusses the challenges of navigating body image issues, especially after experiencing weight gain. She shares how her openness about her struggles has connected her with viewers who feel similarly. This vulnerability has not only sparked discussions but also empowered many of her followers to embrace their bodies despite societal standards. Remy emphasizes the importance of honest dialogue regarding body image to dismantle stigmas and create understanding among diverse audiences.
The Importance of Inclusivity in Fashion
Remy addresses the need for inclusivity in the fashion industry, candidly calling out brands that fail to accommodate diverse body types. By sharing her experiences wearing clothes that do not cater to her size, she highlights the shortcomings of popular brands. She advocates for meaningful changes in the industry by demanding accountability from brands regarding their inclusivity efforts. Remy's ambition is to create a fashion line that acknowledges and celebrates all body types, reflecting her commitment to fostering change.
Navigating Personal Relationships
The discussion shifts to Remy's experiences with dating and relationships, revealing her insecurities around entering romantic situations as a person who has never had a boyfriend. She explains how her newfound visibility complicates her dating life, where the dynamics of attraction feel different now than they did before her online presence. Remy expresses her desire to remain authentic, reminding listeners that it's okay to have uncertainties while experiencing personal growth. This openness gives insight into the complexities of modern dating, particularly in the context of social media.
Coping with Mental Health and Seeking Help
Remy shares her decision to enter outpatient treatment for her mental health, acknowledging the toll that her public persona and life changes have taken on her well-being. In a brave admission, she discusses her past struggles with binge eating and its emotional repercussions. Remy emphasizes the significance of prioritizing mental health and finding support through therapy and community. This experience reinforces her belief in the healing power of vulnerability and the importance of being honest about one's challenges.
Father Cooper sits down with model and content creator, @remibader. Remi got her start on TikTok posting realistic clothing hauls and her platform has since expanded beyond fashion. Remi opens up and reflects on discrimination she’s faced since launching her career; for the first time, she tells the story of what actually went down this summer at a Hampton’s ranch where she was publicly humiliated and forced to leave due to her weight. Remi opens up about how she really feels towards the ‘influencers’ who decided participating in a low rent influencer horsey ride was more important than siding with their friend. Remi discusses her decision to seek outpatient treatment for her eating disorder and her ongoing journey to self-acceptance. Over wine, Remi dishes on her best dating stories and shares how one night of sex led to thousands of dollars in water damage. Trigger warning: This episode discusses adult subject matters, including descriptions of eating disorders and body dysmorphia. Listener discretion is advised. Text or call the NEDA helpline for support, resources, and treatment options for yourself or a loved one who is struggling with an eating disorder at 800.931.2237 and online at www.nationaleatingdisorders.org
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