Do Our Friendships Have to Be This Complicated?

Have female friendships become more complicated than they need to be? Amy and Margaret dig into the dynamics of their own female-female friendships and what the research says: why some friendships last decades, why others drift apart, and why friendship “breakup texts” have become a thing.

In this episode you'll learn:

• Why women expect more intimacy and reciprocity from friends than men do

• Why conflict styles play a big role in how friendships evolve

• The six categories of friendship that women and men look for, but with different priorities

• How to reconnect with old friends (without the awkwardness)

• Why it’s okay for different friends to meet different needs

Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in this episode:

• Olga Khazan for The Atlantic: Why Do We Break Up With Friends?
• Emine Saner for The Guardian: Drifting away from your friends? Here are 10 questions to bring you closer
• Heather Havrilesky for The Cut: Why Do My Friendships Always Fade Away?
• Lilly Dancyger for Elle Magazine: We Need to Talk About Our Ex-Best Friends
• Fresh Take: Kat Vellos On Friendship and Connection
• Leigh E. Elkin and Christopher Peterson for Sex Roles Journal: Gender Differences in Best Friendships
• Dr. Jeffrey Hall et. al for The Journal of Personal and Social Relationships: Friendship standards: The dimensions of ideal expectations
• Michelle Ellman: BAD FRIEND
• Fresh Take: Norah Lally

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