Stop Playing House: Get Married Or Move On - Ep. 036
Mar 27, 2024
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Exploring the impact of living together before marriage, boyfriend/girlfriend culture, and the importance of courtship. Emphasizing the value of being a husband and father, and providing guidance on navigating relationships with commitment and maturity.
Avoid living together before marriage to reduce divorce risk and moral temptations.
Question relationship compatibility early on to ensure alignment on important aspects like children and values.
Prioritize marriage as a commitment before God, embracing challenges and responsibilities for a fulfilling family life.
Deep dives
The Downside of Cohabitation Before Marriage
Cohabitation before marriage may lead to a higher chance of divorce, as statistically shown. It can also increase the risk of engaging in sexual sin, as living together can create an environment ripe for temptation and moral compromise.
Challenging Conversations and Relationship Stability
Engaging in hard conversations and questioning the relationship rigorously before marriage can help reveal any fatal flaws early on. This process allows for a deeper understanding of compatibility and ensures that both partners are on the same page regarding important life aspects like children and values.
Proper Navigation of Boyfriend-Girlfriend Dynamics
Understanding that the purpose of dating is leading to marriage is critical. Setting boundaries, asking difficult questions, and being willing to end relationships that are not aligned with long-term goals are essential for navigating the dynamics of being boyfriend and girlfriend.
Making Marriage a Priority
Prioritizing marriage over societal norms or trends like the fear of divorce or prenuptial agreements by focusing on the sanctity and importance of marriage as a commitment before God. Acknowledging the true value and purpose of marriage can guide decision-making towards a more meaningful and fulfilling relationship.
Preparing for Marriage Responsibly
Rather than delaying marriage for self-focused reasons or fearing consequences like divorce, choosing marriage as a path to fulfilling responsibilities, providing for a family, and embodying God's purpose for a family-oriented life. Embracing the challenges and rewards that come with marriage as an opportunity for growth and deepening spiritual devotion.
Discussing living together before marriage, boyfriend/girlfriend culture, the glory of being a husband and father, and how to approach courtship properly!
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INTRO (00:50)
Our stories, did we play house? (05:05)
What do you think about boyfriend/girlfriend culture? (10:08)
Why is playing house wrong and why should a couple not live with each other before marriage? (24:29)
What should a couple do if they are already living together before marriage? (33:55)
How should a couple properly navigate being boyfriend and girlfriend? (36:12)
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