Dating today feels like emotional gymnastics — and no one knows that better than Talia, a dating expert and podcast host who went on 150 dates in one year. In this episode, I sit down with Talia to unpack what she learned, how she stayed grounded, and why modern dating can be so mentally exhausting.
We talk about:
- The neuroscience of dating and attachment styles
- How to build resilience after rejection
- Dating app burnout
- What “slow burn chemistry” actually means
- The role of neuroplasticity in healing unhealthy patterns
- Why self-compassion might be your strongest dating tool
Talia also shares daily practices, mindset shifts, and practical advice that will help anyone — whether you’re new to dating, starting over, or just tired of the same dead-end patterns.
This conversation will change how you think about dating, love, and your brain.
📌 Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome
00:30 Talia's Journey to Becoming a Dating Expert
01:12 Scientific Approach to Dating
01:51 Mental Resilience and Podcast Impact
03:20 Breaking Free from Dating Patterns
05:44 Intentional Thinking and Practical Steps
09:55 Overcoming Overthinking in Dating
11:30 Identifying Personal Needs vs. Fear-Based Desires
14:32 Focusing on Personal Growth
15:01 Handling Rejection in Dating
16:22 Using Dating Apps Intentionally
18:10 The Concept of Slow Burn Chemistry
19:33 Aligning Dating Choices with Core Values
20:31 Self-Compassion in the Dating Journey
23:57 Reentering the Dating Scene with Confidence
25:11 Debunking Dating Myths
25:40 Daily Practices for Emotional Wellbeing
26:05 Defining a Successful Relationship
26:41 Final Thoughts and Gratitude
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