This American Life 850: If You Want to Destroy My Sweater, Hold This Thread as I Walk Away
Jan 4, 2026
Lilly Sullivan, a producer for the show, shares a poignant personal story about her family, uncovering surprising truths that challenge her long-held beliefs. Musician Mike Comite takes listeners on a nostalgic journey, revisiting a pivotal Bonnaroo experience with Weezer that left him questioning missed opportunities. The discussions unravel the threads of personal history and memory, showcasing how tiny moments can shape our perceptions and relationships throughout life.
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Teacher's Speech
- Chris Benderev's high school teacher gave an impromptu speech about friendships fading over time.
- This made Chris feel fearful about the future and nostalgic during his senior year.
The Hitchhiker Story
- Lily Sullivan's family has a cherished story about her parents meeting: her dad, Brian, was a hitchhiker picked up by her mom and aunt.
- This story is central to the family's identity and represents how they came to be.
Mom's Version
- Lily discovers her mom, Cecilia, has a different version of the story where Brian wasn't hitchhiking.
- Cecilia claims they met while walking and Brian approached them, contradicting the family's narrative.