Sarah Dawn Moore - How To Break Up With Your Bad Relationship Habits
Sep 23, 2023
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Sarah Dawn Moore, a relationship coach, discusses topics such as challenges in relationships based on psychology and gender dynamics, the impact of absent or unstable fathers on women's attitudes, and the tendency of women to test their partners. The podcast emphasizes the importance of communication, understanding, and not judging each other in relationships.
Healing childhood wounds is crucial for healthy relationships.
Open communication and understanding gender differences are key in relationships.
Breaking away from harmful relationship patterns and biases is essential for personal growth and finding genuine connections.
Deep dives
Healing Childhood Wounds
The speaker discusses the importance of healing childhood wounds in order to have healthy relationships. She shares her own experience of feeling abandoned and how it impacted her relationships.
Understanding Gender Dynamics
The podcast explores the dynamics between men and women in relationships. The speaker emphasizes the need for open communication and understanding of each other's needs and expectations. She discusses the importance of not expecting men and women to be the same and appreciating the differences.
Breaking Harmful Relationship Patterns
The speaker highlights the need to break out of harmful relationship patterns and expectations. She shares her journey of self-discovery and learning to let go of toxic patterns. The podcast encourages women to be more receptive and allows men to take on leadership roles in relationships.
Misunderstanding Men's Motivations and Women's Search for Love
Women often have negative early experiences with men, which can lead to a subconscious belief that men cannot be trusted. These experiences can also shape their view that men only want women for sex. Women may then internalize these beliefs and join groups that promote a negative view of men, such as the feminist movement. However, it is important to recognize that these beliefs are not true for all men. Healing involves looking at early experiences and examining one's own behavior and contribution to these negative patterns. It also requires breaking away from destructive patterns and being open to different types of attractions and connections.
The Challenge of Overcoming Selection Bias and Misunderstanding in Dating
Women tend to create a negative attitude towards men based on past experiences, leading to a selection bias where they believe that all men will hurt them. This bias can perpetuate negative patterns and prevent them from seeing the potential in good men. Furthermore, societal trends like online dating can exacerbate these biases, with a small percentage of men receiving attention from the majority of women. Many men have learned how to manipulate women and say the right things to create an image of what they want. This further reinforces the negative perception of men. Overcoming these biases requires recognizing the bias and being open to different types of men, as well as creating honest and direct communication in relationships.
My guest today is someone I’ve waited four months to speak to, mistake on my side by the way, we just didn’t coordinate very well. But four months ago Instagram, for once, showed me something I liked, so I clicked. It was a video about a relationship coach speaking about how women do certain things in a relationship, and I found myself nodding vigorously. Like yes, absolutely I feel this is what I have gone through, and so I clicked for more content, and I was head-banging all the way through...
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