

Losing It
May 27, 2025
Frank Traynor, a gifted storyteller with a knack for humor, recounts his memorable 'Achilles Cake' tale, exploring the blend of joy and vulnerability in personal narratives. Jonathan Bradley Welch shares his comedic yet poignant experience with tacos, showcasing the lighter side of life's mishaps. Together, they dive into themes of friendship, personal growth, and the power of storytelling to create connections. Their anecdotes reflect on nostalgia, the quirks of growing up, and finding humor amidst chaos.
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Birthday Candle Torment
- Frank Traynor shares a birthday story where his friend Mariano repeatedly blew out his birthday candles to annoy him.
- Frank's anger peaked when he destroyed the cake, an event that haunted him for years.
Managing Anger in Conflict
- Frank realizes controlling anger in situations where people try to ruin moments is crucial.
- He learned to be 'in on the joke' to not give in to anger, even when hurt inside.
College Choices Reflect Identity
- Jonathan describes two typical college options for a closeted gay teen: urban universities or small liberal arts schools.
- His choice reflected a deeper search for belonging and identity as a queer youth.