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Write-minded: Weekly Inspiration for Writers

On the Merits of Not Letting the Past Stay in the Past, featuring Susan Lieu

Jan 13, 2025
Susan Lieu, a multi-hyphenate storyteller and author of *The Manicurist’s Daughter*, shares her journey of exploring grief and trauma through memoir writing. She discusses how her mother’s death influenced her narrative and the complexities of family silence. Lieu dives into the emotional dynamics of love and loss within cultural contexts, particularly from a Vietnamese perspective. She emphasizes the transformative power of confronting painful experiences and how embracing uncertainty can lead to personal growth and deeper understanding.
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  • Susan Lieu's journey illustrates how engaging with painful memories can lead to personal healing and a deeper understanding of family dynamics.
  • The podcast emphasizes the detrimental effects of familial silence on processing trauma, urging writers to confront and share their experiences for healing.

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Navigating the Past and Trauma in Memoir

The discussion revolves around how memoirists and novelists often grapple with their pasts, particularly when faced with loss and trauma. The guests reflect on Susan Liu's memoir, 'The Manicurist's Daughter,' which details her experience after losing her mother at a young age due to a botched plastic surgery. This profound loss left emotional scars that shaped her identity and storytelling, prompting her to explore the reasons some individuals can move on while others remain entrenched in their pasts. The conversation highlights the idea that writers often have an intrinsic need to excavate their histories to find meaning and create narratives that resonate with universal themes of grief and memory.

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