Once we awaken we tend to have heightened awareness towards not only our own patterns and shadows but the patterns and shadows of others. And as we witness loved ones and friends navigate their path, it can be tempting to come in and try to save them from their suffering. We reflect back on what it is we have done in our own life so we think we have all the codes and answers for what it is they need to do. "If only they would just do THIS and then they'll be fixed." Sound familiar? What's arising under the surface from the pureness of our heart and desire to help, is a savior complex. The ego comes in and takes hold, convincing us that we hold the key to someone else's awakening. But here's the truth we often overlook: we cannot force someone to awaken, and we don't need to save them. In this episode, we delve deep into the intricacies of this common pitfall in our journey towards helping others. Drawing from personal experiences and insights, we unravel the misguided belief that we can rescue someone from their struggles and lead them to enlightenment. Through heartfelt discussions and poignant reflections, we explore how our well-intentioned actions can inadvertently hinder the growth of those we care about. By imposing our own solutions and perspectives onto others, we risk overshadowing their unique path and stifling their innate wisdom. Join us as we navigate the delicate balance between compassion and interference, learning to trust in the organic evolution of each individual's journey. Together, let's unravel the layers of our savior complex and embrace the liberating truth that true awakening cannot be forced—it can only be discovered from within.

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#47 - People Don't Need to Be Saved: Healing the Savior Complex and Providing What People Truly Need