108: How to Throw a Kick-Ass Play Party (and Be a Kick-Ass Guest) with Ally Isman

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Ever wondered what makes a play party unforgettable (for all the right reasons)? 

In this sizzling episode of The Pineapple Express, I’m joined by Ally Isman, founder of Passport2Pleasure and mastermind behind the KAVANOS: Lisbon Wedding Night experience—an invite-only, immersive destination play party held in a historic Portuguese palace.

Together, we break down everything you need to know to host or attend a play party like a pro, from curating energy and consent culture to creating sacred sensual spaces that feel both sexy and safe.

If you're curious about throwing your own event, leveling up your guest etiquette, or just want a peek behind the velvet curtain of elite erotic events—this episode is your golden ticket.

🔍 Keywords: how to host a play party, KAVANOS Lisbon, sex-positive events, Ally Isman, Passport2Pleasure, consent at play parties, how to attend a sex party, non-monogamy events, luxury swinger events, erotic event planning

✨ We talk about:

• What makes a play party actually work
• Common mistakes and how to avoid awkward energy
• How to design an intentional, inclusive guest list
• Erotic aesthetics, rituals, and ambiance
• Consent communication and comfort culture
• Why KAVANOS is one of the most exclusive sensual events in the world—and how to apply before it disappears forever
•  Apply now for KAVANOS: Lisbon Wedding Night (August 2) via Passport2Pleasure.com and use “PINEAPPLE” for expedited review.

This is not your average play party.
This is art, eros, and elevation.

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