Marie Masse, a late-identified 2e AuDHDer and creative artist, shares her inspiring journey of reclaiming creativity after trauma. She discusses how special interests serve as an organizing force for neurodivergent individuals and differentiates between autistic and ADHD special interests. Marie reflects on the emotional landscape of creativity, the struggles of balancing passion with responsibilities, and the importance of nurturing one's unique identity. Her insights invite listeners to explore their own pathways to healing and self-expression through art.
Special interests are vital for neurodivergent individuals, serving as powerful avenues for self-discovery, creativity, and emotional well-being.
The journey of self-identity in neurodivergent women often involves overcoming societal pressures that dismiss their unique qualities and attributes.
Connection and community engagement around shared interests can significantly enhance resilience and personal growth for neurodivergent individuals.
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The Purpose and Power of Special Interests
Special interests play a crucial role in the lives of neurodivergent individuals, contributing to both their identity and their emotional well-being. Engaging deeply with these interests can provide a sense of purpose and fulfillment, allowing for a unique expression of creativity and passion. The nuances of how special interests manifest may differ across neurodivergent populations, yet they often serve as vital avenues for self-discovery and connection. For many, these interests are not merely hobbies; they become integral facets of one's being, shaping personal narratives and experiences.
Navigating the Challenges of Identity
The journey of self-identity, particularly in neurodivergent individuals, is often fraught with challenges and misconceptions. Many women find themselves dismissing their attributes as they strive to conform to societal expectations, particularly during adolescence and young adulthood. The pressure to fit into normative roles can often lead to a lack of recognition and appreciation for one’s unique qualities. However, embracing neurodivergence and recognizing its value can empower individuals to reclaim their identity and navigate the complexities of their experiences.
The Importance of Connection in Healing
Connection is a cornerstone of healing for neurodivergent individuals, shaping their ability to process experiences and foster resilience. Engaging in community and sharing special interests with like-minded individuals can foster an environment of support and understanding. Many find that sharing their passions can alleviate feelings of isolation, empowering them to embrace their identities fully. This connection not only enhances personal growth but also highlights the shared experiences within the neurodivergent community.
Story Work as a Healing Practice
Story work involves using personal narratives as a transformative tool for understanding and healing. By examining the 'tiny stories' from their lives, individuals gain insight into their values, connections, and experiences. This approach encourages participants to honor their memories and relationships, ultimately leading to greater self-awareness. Through activities such as photography or journaling, story work enables neurodivergent individuals to document their emotional landscapes, find closure, and foster a deeper sense of autonomy.
This week on the pod we chat with Marie Masse (pronounced ‘moss’) about special interests and creativity. Marie is part of our little ND Woman Pod team, and she has been the creative genius behind pretty much everything except the actual episodes themselves, so if you follow us on socials, or you’ve checked out our website, or you’ve downloaded one of our gorgeous PDF episode articles, you’ve definitely seen her work!
Marie is a late-identified 2e AuDHDer with two neurodivergent kids, navigating life with OCD and chronic health conditions —mostly from her creative sanctuary: a little cabin in the Blue Ridge Mountains in the USA. During a period of trauma and burnout, Marie lost access to her most sacred interest—her creative process—but has since reclaimed it, proving that healing and recovery are possible. Since 2013, she has crafted over 300 creations—articles, digital tools, guides, books, podcast episodes, and transformative programs centred around story work. Her creations invite others to stay awake to the tiny stories that shape their lives and use them as opportunities to heal, thrive, and live fully expressed.
On this episode we cover:
How Marie thinks about neurodivergence and her path to discovering her own neurodivergence.
How ‘special interests’ manifest for Marie.
The difference between Autistic, ADHD, and AuDHD special interests.
The centrality of special interests as an ‘organising force’ for autistic folk.
Marie’s experience of losing access to her creative process (her special interest).
The difference between living a ‘balanced’ life for neurotypicals, versus what ‘balance’ can look like for neurodivergent people.
Marie’s experience of her special interests in childhood.
How the internet has made interests and interest-based connections more accessible for neurodivergent folk.
Neurotypical special interests.
Marie explains ‘story work’.
You can find Marie’s work through her website – www.dangerouslygoodstories.com – on Instagram @dangerouslygoodstories and @myneurodivergentjoy, or through her Substack (Live Like You Mean It).
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