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The Unspeakable Podcast

Is Civility Better Than Kindness?

Dec 12, 2023
Author Alexandra Hudson discusses her book 'The Soul of Civility' and the importance of civility in healing society. She shares her mother's career as an etiquette expert and explores the difference between civility and politeness. The speakers discuss respectability politics and the divide between liberal and progressive views.
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Quick takeaways

  • Civility can be weaponized to dismiss genuine anger and concerns, but it is still important to practice respectful and equitable treatment of others.
  • Civility is an internal disposition of the heart that recognizes the moral equality and dignity of all individuals, requiring both setting boundaries and engaging in respectful disagreement.

Deep dives

The Importance of Civility

The podcast episode explores the concept of civility and its relevance in today's society. The host discusses how civility can be seen as a positive attribute, but also acknowledges the criticisms that it can sometimes face. There is a recognition that civility can be weaponized and used to dismiss genuine anger or concerns. However, the host shares their personal commitment to practicing civility, even in difficult situations. The guest, Alexandra Hudson, is introduced as an author who delves into the topic of civility in her book, 'The Soul of Civility, Timeless Principles to Heal Society and Ourselves.' The importance of respectful and equitable treatment of others is emphasized, highlighting the need to view civility as a disposition of the heart rather than mere external behavior.

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