#247 - Lets Talk About Sex with Eleanor Hadley

Let’s talk about SEX!

If you’ve followed me for a while, you’ll know I don’t shy away from many topics, including anything and everything to talk about sex.

If you don't want to hear about all things sex, this one is not for you. But if you’re interested and want to learn, we’ve got Eleanor Hadley @eleanorhadley - sex educator, writer, and speaker - on this episode, helping us overcome the shame or guilt we might feel when it comes to sex.

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SHOW NOTES

00:21 - Eleanor's background

01:50 - Not being able to explore about sex

05:33 - Some of the roadblocks that stop women from having good sex

08:53 - Spontaneous vs responsive desire

10:38 - Mismatched desire

12:10 - Working on each other's desire types

16:20 - Pleasure language

17:00 - Different styles

19:18 - Low sex drive and not knowing what turn them on

20:33 - Madonna-whore academy

23:22 - Performative femininity vs embodied

26:49 - Unrealistic porn performance

28:49 - Audio erotica

29:43 - Watching too much porn

30:45 - Her advice to women who aren't comfortable with their own body

32:06 - Sensual movement

33:49 - Couples who are not having sex

36:57 - Going through different seasons

38:50 - New relationship energy

43:14 - Marriage and monogamy

48:59 - Social condition and programing

49:47 - Non-monogamy

50:30 - Polyamorous

54:54 - Jealousy

56:02 - Relationship and romantic connection

59:17 - Couples who want to explore different fantasies

01:01:22 - Threesomes and being a "unicorn"

01:07:15 - Feeld app

01:08:19 - Where to start

01:10:00 - Self-pleasure

01:11:40 - Trying something different

01:12:29 - Orgasm and penetration

01:16:35 - Foreplay

01:20:50 - Communicating with your partner

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