Discipline. It’s only one word, but it conjures up a multitude of thoughts or memories. In this message, Chip encourages us that done properly, discipline can actually build a strong, positive bond between you and your kids.

Case Study #1 – Reuben Hill (Minnesota Report)

Summary: The balanced authoritative parent, who gives high support (love) and high control (discipline), typically produces children with high self-esteem, good coping skills, and a positive relationship with parents.

Case Study #2 – Hebrews 12 - Christians A.D. 66-70

Summary: Discipline is teaching obedience to God and His Word through consistentconsequences (actions) and clear instructions (words) in an atmosphere of love.

Five characteristics of discipline:

The necessity of discipline = To deter DESTRUCTION. -Heb. 12:4
The means of discipline = The ACTIONS and WORDS. -Heb. 12:5
The motive in discipline = To express LOVE. -Heb. 12:6-9
The goal of discipline = To teach OBEDIENCE or SUBMISSION. -Heb. 12:9
The result of discipline = Short term PAIN and long term GAIN. -Heb. 12:10,11

Two key biblical concepts

1) Actions: Consistent consequences

Seven steps to discipline:

Clear WARNING.
Establish responsibility.
Avoid EMBARASSMENT.
Communicate grief.
Flick the WRIST.
Sincere repentance.
Unconditional LOVE.

2) Words: Clear instructions

Four ways to use words to bring about correction:

Say “no” FIRMLY.
CLEAR WARNING of consequences.
Use CONTRACTS.
Use CONSEQUENCES

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