Games We Play, Part 1: The Honor Game // Andy Stanley

Introduction to a New Series: The Power of the Honor Game

The podcast introduces a new series focusing on the concept of games we play in relationships. It highlights the universal appeal of games and how they influence our behaviors and interactions with others. The speaker emphasizes how we are inspired by watching others compete in various forms of games, leading to personal reflections on competitiveness and the role of games in our lives.

Unpacking Harmful Relationship Games

The episode delves into the negative impact of certain relational games played within families and communities. Examples like the change game, guessing game, guilt game, blame game, and comparison game are discussed. These games generate a win-lose dynamic, resulting in detrimental effects on relationships. The importance of identifying and discarding such harmful games is underscored to foster healthier interactions.

The Honor Game in Relationships

The focus shifts to the concept of the 'honor game' as a positive alternative to detrimental relational games. The honor game involves treating others as more important than oneself, inspired by the teachings of the Apostle Paul. By honoring and valuing others above oneself, individuals can establish mutually beneficial and enjoyable relationships. The speaker emphasizes the significance of adopting the attitude of Jesus in prioritizing others.

Embracing the Principle of Out-Honoring Others

The episode encourages listeners to embrace the principle of out-honoring others by treating them with respect and dignity. Drawing from the example of Jesus, who demonstrated humility and service, individuals are urged to prioritize honoring others above self-interest. By engaging in the honor game and elevating the value of those around them, individuals can foster positive, uplifting relationships that benefit everyone involved.

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Games We Play, Part 1: The Honor Game // Andy Stanley

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Introduction to a New Series: The Power of the Honor Game

Unpacking Harmful Relationship Games

The Honor Game in Relationships

Embracing the Principle of Out-Honoring Others

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