New Books in Psychoanalysis Leo Bersani and Adam Phillips, “Intimacies” (University of Chicago Press, 2008)
Mar 19, 2012
Leo Bersani, a distinguished literary theorist and cultural critic, delves into the intriguing concept of intimacy in this engaging discussion. He challenges traditional psychoanalytic views on knowledge and relationships, proposing that true intimacy should be about being with others rather than merely knowing them. Bersani also reimagines fatherhood, arguing for a nurturing paternal role, and explores the rich dynamics of non-sexual intimacy. His thoughts on masochism and drive theory further illuminate the complexities of human emotion and connection.
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Rethinking Intimacy and Knowledge
- Intimacy is often wrongly based on the desire to fully know the other, which leads to suspicion and threat perception.
- True intimacy might involve being with the other without trying to know or possess them.
Impersional Narcissism Explained
- Impersonal narcissism is a new form allowing recognition of shared being without erasing difference.
- This challenges the traditional mirrored narcissism that seeks sameness by reducing the other.
Rethinking the Father's Role
- The father figure need not act as a threatening law but can be a loving introduction to the world.
- A less punitive father role might reduce violence rooted in castration anxiety and rivalry.
