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KERA's Think

The consequences of cutting people off

Feb 10, 2025
Allie Volpe, a senior reporter at Vox known for her insights on modern friendships, discusses the alarming trend of cutting ties with friends over minor issues. She explores how the rush to ‘protect your peace’ can lead to emotional isolation and warns against abandoning the discomfort that comes with meaningful relationships. The conversation delves into the costs of social media's influence on our connections and the necessity of open dialogue to maintain emotional resilience and healthy interactions in a time when estrangement is increasingly common.
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Quick takeaways

  • The trend of cutting off friends over minor infractions reflects a growing aversion to interpersonal conflict in today's digital age.
  • Prioritizing personal peace often leads to superficial connections, as the challenges in friendships are essential for meaningful relationships.

Deep dives

Understanding Domestic Enemies

Domestic enemies can manifest in various forms, as highlighted by the discussion surrounding oaths taken by government officials. This exploration leads to the realization that while some individuals may harbor ill intentions, many are simply ordinary people grappling with stress and societal pressures. The January 6th events serve as a powerful example, illustrating how political turmoil can lead to violence and division. Understanding this context helps in recognizing that the roots of violence are often deeper than surface-level accusations.

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