Become New with John Ortberg Why Resolutions Fail and What Actually Works
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Jan 1, 2026 Every January, countless individuals set ambitious resolutions, yet most falter by mid-month. The secret isn’t willpower, but a compelling vision of life without indulgences. Drawing on insights from Dallas Willard, it's revealed that intentions fall short without a clearer perspective. By embracing three daily affirmations—recognizing God's presence, trusting His abilities, and celebrating His goodness—listeners can foster lasting change and spiritual growth.
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The Twinkie Example
- John uses a Twinkie as a humorous example of the cravings that derail resolutions.
- He references Dallas Willard and Frank Pastore to show trying harder rarely works.
Vision Beats Willpower
- Resolutions fail because willpower alone lacks the right context and vision.
- A compelling vision of the life you want carries you more than sheer effort.
Impulsive Versus Reflective Will
- Will divides into impulsive and reflective modes that drive behavior.
- Impulsive will moves you toward desires; reflective will evaluates consequences afterward.