Uncanny Sight: You saw something inside me that I didnt see until years later yet I wasnt ready when you named it and that made me nervous

Uncanny Sight: You saw something inside me that I didnt see until years later yet I wasnt ready when you named it and that made me nervous

Are you making people uncomfortable with what you see or does your lended sights give them freedom, energy or clarity to act for their own benefit?

Sometimes the people around you are not ready to connect to what you want to connect on. How can you learn to see that early? If you want to help make change happen you must meet people where they are right now. not where you know they will be eventually.

Often that means you need to go first. To show trust by creating space for them first. To listen for what happens or dont happen and if needed just move on. Or in other times lean in, staying with the tension longer for THEIR benefit. At other time its the exact that behaviour that makes them too uncomfortable. Easy to see in retrospect and the long game. Really hard in the moment. Are you paying attention to the recipient of what you see right now? What you might call kind clarity might be perceived as way to much tension for me. Likewise though. A few years later it might be exactly those very word you get thanked for.

[ I was also having a deep cold recording this. I hope it was bearable to listen to despite that ]