The Breakfast Club Carefully Reckless: My Past vs. My Future
Jun 9, 2025
The hosts dive into the chaos of moving on from an ex, only to have them reappear and stir up old feelings. They discuss the trials of relationships affected by crime and the emotional rollercoaster of reconnecting with reformed partners. Themes of trust, loyalty, and personal growth are explored as they navigate the complexities of love intertwined with past mistakes. The conversation balances heartfelt anecdotes with a reflection on how modern life and personal choices impact relationships.
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Longtime Drug Dealer Love
- The writer loved her first boyfriend, a big-time drug dealer, on and off for 15 years from childhood to adulthood.
- Despite dangers like prison and shootouts, she never got pregnant and they talked of marriage and kids.
Ex Reforms After Jail
- While her ex was in jail, she met a man who showed her real love and compatibility, and got engaged to him.
- Her ex reformed, joined church, started businesses, then unexpectedly appeared at her bank job.
Verify Change Before Acting
- Don't rush into leaving a stable relationship just because an ex returns claiming change.
- Verify actions and receipts of the supposed changes before making decisions.