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How To! | Host With Ease

Sep 2, 2025
Katherine Goldstein, a journalist passionate about mothers and gender equity, shares insights on rebuilding social connections. She discusses the challenges of hosting women’s gatherings post-pandemic and emphasizes the need for 'Deep Casual Hosting.' With practical tips, she encourages listeners to embrace spontaneity, co-hosting, and personal storytelling to cultivate meaningful interactions. The conversation highlights the importance of community in fostering support networks, especially among women navigating life's transitions.
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ANECDOTE

Childhood Gatherings Shaped A Gatherer

  • Courtney recalls hearing adults laughing from the top of her childhood stairs and carrying that gathering habit into adulthood.
  • Her mother's hosting shaped Courtney into someone who now regularly convenes women.
INSIGHT

Lower The Hosting Bar

  • Lower the hosting bar: prioritize connection over perfection when inviting people over.
  • Short lead times and simple food make gatherings feel casual and doable.
ADVICE

Use Short Lead Times And Simple Food

  • Try shorter lead times: text on Thursday asking 'Are you free Saturday?' to set a casual tone.
  • Serve simple, scaled-up dishes like Costco chicken and pesto pasta to reduce prep stress.
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