The Christina Crowe Podcast: Making the invisible VISIBLE E92: When Love Isn't Enough: Uncovering Hidden Ableism in Well-Meaning Families
Apr 14, 2025
Exploring the overlooked dynamics of ableism within loving families sheds light on how internalized beliefs affect relationships. The discussion highlights the damaging misinterpretations of ADHD traits, revealing how such views can sabotage connection. It also delves into the complexities of unaddressed neurodivergence among family members. Listeners are guided toward fostering understanding and support, urging a shift to embrace neurodiversity and enhance family bonds. Practical insights empower families to begin their journey of awareness and advocacy.
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Misinterpreting ADHD Traits
- Forgetfulness or distractibility in ADHD is often mistaken for laziness or intentional behavior.
- This misunderstanding reflects a lack of grasp of executive dysfunction and derails support.
Understanding Ableism and Internalized Ableism
- Ableism assumes everyone should function the same and labels those who don't as broken or lazy.
- Internalized ableism makes people believe these messages, causing shame, self-doubt, and harmful labels.
Avoid Masking Neurodivergence
- Avoid trying to fix or mask your child's neurodivergence to conform to societal norms.
- Embrace their traits to support self-esteem and authentic relationships.