
 Commons Church Podcast
 Commons Church Podcast Peacemakers, Not Peacekeepers - Jeremy Duncan
 Sep 29, 2025 
 What does it mean to be a true peacemaker? The discussion dives into the transformative power of Jesus' teachings, contrasting peacekeeping with the courage of peacemaking. Personal stories highlight the highs and lows of conflict in relationships, revealing effective strategies for resolution. The concept of nonviolent resistance is examined, shedding light on active ways to confront injustice. Listeners are encouraged to apply these principles in their daily lives, paving the way for a more just and harmonious world. 
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Beatitudes Describe God's Neighborhood
- The Beatitudes sketch a tangible picture of heaven as a way of life, not an abstract afterlife.
- Peacemakers join God's neighborhood by embodying values that make earth more like heaven.
Keeping Peace Vs. Making Peace
- Duncan distinguishes keeping peace (avoiding conflict) from making peace (using conflict to create change).
- True peace sometimes requires courageous engagement rather than mere avoidance.
Marriage Conflict Triangle
- Jeremy Duncan recounts early marriage struggles rooted in different conflict defaults: he leaned into fights while Rachel avoided them.
- Learning the 'toward, away, against' language in therapy transformed their ability to name patterns and work toward healthier peace.







