Light Up The Couch Love Across Party Lines: Supporting Interpolitical Couples in Times of Tension, Ep. 228
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Dec 4, 2024 
Lambers Fisher, a licensed marriage and family therapist with over two decades of experience in couples therapy, delves into the complexities of interpolitical relationships. He shares practical strategies for fostering connection amid political divides. The conversation emphasizes the importance of empathy, open communication, and recognizing shared values. Fisher highlights the therapist's role in addressing confirmation bias and emotional dynamics, aiming to rebuild trust and strengthen bonds, even during politically charged times.
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Interpolitical Couples Prevalence
- 20-30% of couples are 'interpolitical', differing significantly in political beliefs.
- This impacts relationships and creates fear of disclosure due to potential partner reactions.
Addressing the "Cancel Culture" Mindset
- Understand the 'cancel culture' mindset in relationships, driven by fear of future harm.
- Facilitate conversations addressing hopes and fears, not just political stances.
Castle Analogy
- Lambers Fisher uses the analogy of a couple in a castle with one seeing an external threat, the other enjoying a picnic.
- This highlights differing perceptions and the need to acknowledge each other's feelings.