The Optimistic Outlook with John Eades

You Have to Lose Before Winning

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Oct 17, 2025
Explore how setbacks can lead to transformative wins through powerful stories. John reflects on his 7th-grade football team’s journey, where losses became the foundation for their biggest victory. Drawing inspiration from Michael Jordan, he emphasizes that early failures are key to success. Each loss is not the end but a lesson guiding us toward future victories. Embrace the mindset that every setback shapes resilience and character. Choose optimism and learn from every experience!
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ANECDOTE

Season-Ending Victory After Past Defeat

  • John Eades describes his 7th grade team's season-ending 14-13 win over a rival they lost to previously.
  • He recounts the postgame celebration and how prior losses shaped their character and performance.
INSIGHT

Losses As Preparation Not Failure

  • John argues that setbacks, missed tackles, and tough defeats taught the team valuable lessons.
  • He frames those tests as preparation that made the players better and more resilient.
ADVICE

Adopt A 'Lose Before Winning' Mindset

  • Do adopt a mindset that treats losses as lessons to prepare for future wins.
  • Try using stories of persistence, like Michael Jordan's early failures, to motivate consistent effort.
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