In the Market with Janet Parshall

Hour 2: Do I Need Boundaries?

Oct 13, 2025
Dr. Jim Neuhauser, a Christian counselor and professor, shares practical insights on the importance of setting boundaries in our lives. He explains why many struggle to say 'no' and highlights biblical examples of Jesus modeling limits. Jim emphasizes discerning priorities to align our choices with God's will, offering guidance on overcoming the fear of disappointing others. He also addresses issues like parenting, LGBTQ+ relations, and the balance between personal goals and God-given responsibilities, providing listeners with actionable advice for healthier relationships.
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INSIGHT

Saying Yes Can Hide Spiritual Imbalance

  • Christians often say yes to prove their faith, which leads to burnout and bitterness.
  • Saying no can sometimes be the most pleasing thing to God when it preserves zeal and calling.
ADVICE

Prioritize Pleasing God First

  • Prioritize pleasing God over fearing people's expectations when deciding requests.
  • Practice saying no when necessary because even Jesus withdrew from crowds to commune with the Father.
INSIGHT

Biblical Roots Of Boundaries

  • The Bible uses literal fences and exclusions that parallel modern boundary concepts.
  • Biblical examples (temple, Holy of Holies, church discipline) validate setting relational limits wisely.
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