Freelance Writing Direct with Estelle: Conversations with authors, journalists, agents, novelists, memoirists, niche writers, publishers, writing teachers, assigning editors and media experts. #132 The Blurry Boundary Between Truth and Fiction in Women's Lives Featuring Nicole Graev Lipson
Nicole Graev Lipson is the author of the memoir in essays Mothers and Other Fictional Characters. Her writing has appeared in The Sun, Virginia Quarterly Review, LA Review of Books, The Washington Post, The Boston Globe, and Marie Claire, among other venues. Her work has been awarded a Pushcart Prize, shortlisted for a National Magazine Award, and selected for The Best American Essays anthology. She lives outside of Boston with her husband and children.
In this episode:
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The organizing principle of Mothers and Other Fictional Characters and how personal essays that started with confusion or a question became a cohesive book [3:00]
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How Nicole layered literary themes and archetypes into her book along with real life situations [7:56]
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The complexity of intergenerational relationships, particularly with mothers and fathers [11:48]
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The duality of embracing and resisting traditional gender roles [16:34]
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How to write emotional scenes from everyday moments [22:21]
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Advice for writers on structuring essays, capturing sensory details, and writing an accumulation of small moments [41:03]
Connect with Nicole
Website https://nicolegraevlipson.com
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/nglipson/
Subscribe to Nicole's newsletter https://nicolegraevlipson.com/contact
Buy her book on Estelle's Bookshop
Other Episodes Mentioned
Maggie Smith
Episode #81 The Art of Shaping a Compelling Story
https://estelleserasmus.com/81-the-art-of-shaping-a-compelling-story-featuring-maggie-smith/
Joanna Rakoff: Episode #87 Writing Memoir that Reads Like a Novel and Captivates on Every Page
Kelly McMasters: Episode #39 The Literary Gifts of The Leaving Season
https://estelleserasmus.com/39-the-literary-gifts-of-the-leaving-season/
Christie Tate: Episode #123 Writing About Trauma Using Timelines, Throughlines, and Imagery
Nicole's Pushcart- Prize winning essay "Tikkun Olam Ted" that was in River Teeth Journal
https://zibbymag.com/blog/pushcart-prize-essay-tikkun-olam
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