Learn how to handle haters and overcome fear. Explore the importance of having haters and embracing hate. Reflect on feedback and prioritize personal enjoyment. Understand the difference between shame and self-advocacy. Navigate constructive feedback and practice self-love in dealing with haters.
Having haters can be a positive sign that you are using your voice and challenging the status quo.
There are different types of haters and it's important to respond differently to each type.
Deep dives
Haters are a Sign of Taking Up Space
Having haters is a receipt for taking up space and using your voice. The more impact and influence you have, the more hate you may attract. Artists, writers, and humanitarian heroes throughout history have faced significant hate as they challenged the status quo.
Different Types of Haters
There are different types of haters with different responses. The first type are people who just don't like you. In this case, the best response is to ignore them and focus on people who appreciate you. The second type are people who are hurting and projecting their pain onto you. Recognize that it's not about you and let it go. The third type are people who think you should be different. They are not the right fit for you and it's best to release them and attract the right audience.
Handling Uncomfortable Feedback
When receiving uncomfortable feedback, consider if the person giving it is someone you want to grow with. If not, their feedback may not be valuable. Additionally, ask yourself if you want to prioritize growth in the specific area pointed out. You don't have to take every opportunity to grow. Lastly, reflect on what the feedback triggers in you and whether it's something you want to explore. Self-advocacy and self-celebration are key to approaching feedback from a place of self-worth and curiosity.
The Importance of Self-Love
Dealing with haters is not easy, and it's crucial to prioritize self-love. Remember that you are already worthy and amazing as you are. Learning and growth should come from a place of self-advocacy and celebration. Embrace your sensitivity, navigate feedback with integrity, and enjoy the journey of self-improvement.
The bigger your voice and impact, the more hate you’ll inevitably get, and I believe this is a great thing.
While having haters ultimately means you’re using your voice in a meaningful way, it’s important to consider that not all haters are created equal.
Listen in this week to discover what it means if you’re receiving hate, and why I believe having haters is a sign that you’re challenging the status quo.