The Era of Sexual Disenchantment - Aaron Sibarium | Maiden Mother Matriarch 31
Sep 17, 2023
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Guest Aaron Sibarium talks about sexual disenchantment and rejecting traditional sexual morality. They explore the relationship between the right and women, challenges of monogamy in a world of dating apps, nostalgia for the 1950s vs. progress, and the influence of attractiveness on treatment and opportunities. They also discuss the naivety of progressive feminism and the right's struggle to attract female support.
Sexual disenchantment neglects the emotional and meaningful aspects of human sexuality.
Progressive sexual ethics should consider the needs and desires of individuals seeking traditional relationships.
Balancing personal fulfillment and societal stability requires realistic and diverse advice for different individuals.
Deep dives
The Concept of Sexual Disenchantment
The podcast episode explores the concept of sexual disenchantment, which refers to the shift from an enchanted view of sexuality to a more rational and materialistic perspective. It draws on the ideas of Max Weber and Charles Taylor to argue that reducing sex to a purely physical act neglects the emotional and meaningful aspects of human sexuality. The episode discusses how rejecting traditional sexual morality and pursuing complete freedom can lead to problems and difficulties in establishing meaningful relationships.
Challenges of Progressive Sexual Ethics
The podcast delves into the challenges of progressive sexual ethics, particularly in relation to the rights and desires of individuals. It questions the assumption that all sexual preferences should be normalized and argues that there is a diversity of preferences and desires. The episode highlights how the focus on avant-garde sexual preferences may neglect the needs and desires of individuals who desire more traditional, monogamous relationships. It also examines the impact of dating apps and the disproportionality of sexual opportunities for certain individuals.
Balancing Individual Preferences and Societal Order
The episode explores the tension between individual preferences and societal order. It acknowledges the complexity of desires and recognizes that not everyone shares the same preferences. It discusses the challenge of finding a balance between personal fulfillment and societal stability, emphasizing the need for realistic and practical advice that caters to the diverse needs of different individuals, rather than imposing a one-size-fits-all approach. The episode suggests the importance of considering the consequences of different sexual norms and striving for a society that prioritizes both personal happiness and social cohesion.
The Challenges of Modern Dating Culture
The podcast discusses the challenges and complexities of modern dating culture compared to previous eras. It highlights the shift from in-person interactions to online dating apps and the potential drawbacks of this change. The speaker raises concerns about the lack of clear social norms and expectations in today's dating landscape. They point out that attempts to reintroduce rules or regulations, such as age gap discourse, may not be effective and can lead to contradictions and confusion. The podcast also explores the role of physical appearance and beauty standards in dating and the difficulty of navigating these dynamics in a society that promotes body positivity and egalitarianism.
Trade-offs and the Need for Realistic Approaches
The podcast emphasizes the importance of recognizing and understanding trade-offs when it comes to dating and relationships. It highlights the need for a more nuanced and pragmatic approach to societal values and expectations. The speaker questions the feasibility of constructing a perfect sexual culture and acknowledges the complexity and subjectivity of individual preferences. They discuss the challenges faced by different groups, such as incels or those with autism, in navigating the dating landscape. The podcast concludes with the idea that embracing the tragic and being aware of the limitations and trade-offs can lead to a more honest and realistic perspective on relationships and societal progress.
My guest this week is Aaron Sibarium, he is a writer and reporter at the Washington Free Beacon. On the podcast we talked about sexual disenchantment and the difficulty in rejecting sexual morality of the past yet why Aaron won’t fully embrace the ‘trad’ position instead. In the extended episode Aaron spoke about his critique of the right, and its relationship with women. You can find extended episodes, bonus episodes and the MMM chat community on louiseperry.substack.com
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