

Leading Off the Map
May 10, 2025
In this engaging conversation, Mike DeRider, a pastor and coach, shares insights from his experience with Bowen Family Systems Theory. He discusses the importance of managing anxiety as a leader, emphasizing the role of guiding principles, humor, and curiosity. Personal stories about parenting children from the foster care system and navigating challenges in St. Croix highlight how leadership today requires adaptability and innovative thinking. Mike encourages exploring new approaches when off the map, with coaching and community serving as vital support.
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The Challenge of Off-Map Leadership
- Being off map means moving beyond familiar skills to adapt and lead effectively in new contexts.
- This transition demands both external experimentation and intense internal emotional work.
Anxiety's Impact on Leadership
- Anxiety increases when facing unpredictable situations common off-map.
- This anxiety impairs thinking, making it harder to lead effectively if not managed.
Managing Anxiety to Lead Effectively
- Manage anxiety actively instead of denying it to function better when off map.
- Use calming techniques to lower anxiety and access core guiding principles in leadership.