Straight White American Jesus

It's in the Code ep 157: “Love Is Love, Pt.3”

Aug 6, 2025
This discussion dives deep into the concept of 'toxic empathy,' particularly in relation to marriage equality. It critically examines how high-control American Christianity can twist the notion of love to assert authority. The tension between doctrinal beliefs and personal empathy is laid bare, revealing the conflicts faced by those in strict religious environments. The allure of surrendering to such authority is also dissected, prompting listeners to reflect on their connections with empathy and societal norms.
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INSIGHT

Stuckey's Empathy Temptation

  • Allie Beth Stuckey is uniquely tempted by empathy in her chapter on "Love is Love."
  • She acknowledges the joy and authenticity in Glennon Doyle Melton's relationship but resists fully affirming it due to her beliefs.
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Love Subsumed by Authority

  • High control American Christianity defines love by authority and submission.
  • Stuckey rejects empathy by insisting truth as defined by God must take priority over happiness.
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Authority Masks as Love

  • High control Christianity relies on the necessity to submit to authority justified by knowledge.
  • Love is masked as authority demanding submission and obedience for so-called care.
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