In this episode, I introduce you to Kailley S. who is a busy mom of 6 with number 7 on the way. Kailley has a dog, she’s married and her dad recently moved in with them. In 2021, Kailley was looking for an organization podcast. We actually met at a homeschool convention in Cincinnati. At the time, Kailley was expecting the twins (who are now 10 months); now she’s expecting again! Kailley is in the accumulation phase of life and discovered she actually is organized. She knows where things are but that’s just it, there are so many things with 6 kids. She’s learned she’s functionally organized. She gave the example of moving cups lower so the kids could get their own cups (which she wanted) and they didn’t have to climb on the countertops (which her husband wanted). She continues to iterate their spaces as their kids’ needs as they change and grow (SMART-I-ES).
Kailley used to go to her husband’s business every Friday to watch the replay and process her Sunday Basket® while her mom would watch the kids. Sometimes Kailley and her husband even got to go out for a lunch date. But Kailley’s mom’s health worsened and she couldn’t help on Fridays anymore. Unfortunately, her mother passed about 5 weeks before her twins were born. Kailley no longer took the time to process her Sunday Basket®, but she was still placing things in it for safekeeping.
We pointed out at this point how important it is to know the phase of life you are in. Really busy phases of life may only allow for once a month processing. I know with the PhD right now, I am having to do my Sunday Basket® once a month. But organization is like riding a bike; the skill of organizing doesn’t leave you. When you have small children under the age of 5, life is just chaotic. It’s like once you get on a schedule, the kids change and the schedule is out the window! It’s a time of life to give yourself grace. Speaking of grace, that’s what Kailley wishes she would have known sooner. She was organized despite her spaces not being Pinterest perfect. We all need to give ourselves grace and not compare to others or what they are doing. This is something Kailley had struggled with in the past and the podcast reminded her of this lesson.
Kailley homeschools her children, hosts a monthly co-op, and runs one of the ministries at church. Then Kailley added the twins as the holidays were approaching, her mother’s passing, going through her parent’s house, selling their house, and having her dad move in with them. Kailley’s siblings were very helpful in going through and selling her parent’s home. She purchased the Friday Workbox® for church and the Holiday Sunday Basket® Bundle too. Even with the addition of more Sunday Basket®s, she noticed all of them plus a laundry basket were overflowing. She’s been able to declutter all the baskets and is ready to start a routine with the Sunday Basket® again. After all of that, she claims she feels like she is starting to catch her breath. It’s the beginning of a new school year and she’s got a plan in place for Fridays, with her older two going into work with her husband and her dad as the “manny” with the next three; she’ll keep the baby.
Kailley’s advice is, “Don’t let a perfect finish deter you from getting started. Start with just one small thing and often that leads to one more small thing. Before you know it, it’s one big thing. Just do it!”
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