Cultivating a Healthy Marriage with Tim Keller

Marriage as Completion: One Flesh

Jul 30, 2024

Explore the profound concept of 'one flesh' in marriage, illuminating the balance of unity and individuality between spouses. Delve into the transformative power of communication and how it shapes identity, urging couples to embrace vulnerability. Discover the importance of mutual decision-making and the complementary nature of different temperaments in fostering harmony. Finally, confront the complexities of nurturing love in a flawed world, recognizing the need for divine fulfillment in every relationship.

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Marriage embodies a unique oneness through the biblical concept of 'one flesh,' necessitating vulnerability and openness from both partners.

The distinct yet complementary roles of husbands and wives in marriage highlight mutual submission and personal growth within the relationship.

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The Structure of Marriage Roles

Marriage involves distinct roles for husbands and wives that are foundational to its structure. The concept of mutual submission is emphasized, where both partners are equal but have different responsibilities. Husbands are called to love their wives selflessly, mirroring Christ's love for the church, while wives are encouraged to respect their husbands, suggesting an asymmetrical mutuality. This design fosters an environment where both partners can thrive while maintaining their unique contributions to the relationship.

The Chemistry of One-Fleshness in Marriage

04:17

The Power of Affirmation in Marriage

02:01

The Complementary Nature of Marriage Roles

04:20

Intro

4min

The Union of One Flesh

6min

The Transformative Power of Words in Marriage

9min

Unity and Consensus in Marriage

3min

Understanding Temperament in Marriage

15min

The Power and Purpose of Marriage in a Fallen World

3min

We’re in a series on marriage, and we’ve said the purpose of marriage is friendship and a unique oneness. And we’ve also said there’s a structure in marriage.

Ephesians 5 teaches that there’s a mutuality between husband and wife, and yet the commands are not the same to both. They’re equal, but they’re not equivalent.

We’ll look now at 1) the concept that in marriage you become one flesh, 2) how this oneness happens, and 3) how this oneness bridges into the subject of role relationships between men and women in marriage.

This sermon was preached by Dr. Timothy Keller at Redeemer Presbyterian Church on September 22, 1991. Series: Marriage. Scripture: Ephesians 5:22-33.

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