James Low - Dzogchen and Buddhist Teachings

Finding ourselves on the inside

Mar 31, 2025
Dive into the exploration of self-perception and how it’s shaped by others’ opinions. The discussion emphasizes the struggle for validation against societal expectations. A poignant analogy about haircuts reveals deeper truths about identity and self-acceptance. Discover how the quest for external approval can cloud our understanding of our true selves. Ultimately, it’s about finding and embracing your inner self, independent of outside judgments.
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ADVICE

Find Yourself Within

  • Find yourself internally; the path is open and welcoming.
  • Engage inwardly without external limitation to discover your true self.
ANECDOTE

Haircut Dissatisfaction Story

  • Many women feel unhappy after a haircut because it doesn't meet their expectations.
  • They often seek another hairdresser to fix it, aiming for the "right" appearance that satisfies external views.
INSIGHT

Self vs Others in Appearance

  • Your appearance belongs more to those who see you than to yourself.
  • You become an object to yourself, but this self-view does not dictate how others perceive you.
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