Writing Excuses

19.49: Getting to Know You

Dec 8, 2024

Dive into the art of storytelling as key elements of romance shape character dynamics. Discover the intriguing concept of 'meet-cutes' and how initial conflicts blossom into meaningful connections. Explore the idea of individuals as 'half oranges,' thriving through complementary strengths. Unpack character interactions, emphasizing actions over words, and learn about the importance of compatibility in relationships. Plus, get engaged with a homework challenge that prompts deeper character exploration.

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Integrating elements of romance in storytelling enhances character dynamics, emphasizing the significance of meaningful interactions and relationship development.

Character evolution is demonstrated through stages of denial, resistance, and acceptance, allowing readers to engage deeply with the narrative's emotional complexity.

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Intro

2min

Meet-Cutes and Unconventional Connections

8min

The Concept of Completeness in Relationships

1min

Navigating Character Relationships and Writing Retreats

5min

Dynamics of Character Relationships

6min

Exploring Character Dynamics in Storytelling

4min

As we wrap up our Close Reading Series, we’re shifting our focus towards helping you integrate what you’ve learned. For December, we’ll be releasing episodes designed to help you make measurable progress on a writing project. So dust off your current work-in-progress, or pull out your brainstorming documents—we’re here to help you finish the year strong.

What can we learn from romances? Today we’re talking about using elements of romance in your story (even if you have no romance in your current WIP!) Character relationships and dynamics are often at the heart of our stories, so what can we learn from the romance genre?

We’re thinking about the power of one character putting another one at ease, a character dismissing another (“I’ll never be interested in you!”), or two characters finding a commonality between themselves. Mary Robinette also introduces us to her family’s theory of compatibility, which measures these M-words: mind, money, morals, manners, monogamy, and mirth.

Thing of the Week: Ancient History Fangirl (podcast)

Homework: In the scene you’re working on, what is one thing your character finds attractive about the other character in the scene? Also, what does your own character think is their own least attractive trait, and how can you make them more anxious about that right now?

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Credits: Your hosts for this episode were Mary Robinette Kowal, Dan Wells, DongWon Song, Erin Roberts, and Howard Tayler. It was produced by Emma Reynolds, recorded by Marshall Carr, Jr., and mastered by Alex Jackson.

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