Better Than Happy 521. Friendship Is a Thought
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Jul 11, 2025 Friendships often come with unspoken expectations that can lead to hurt feelings. When interactions change, it can feel personal, but this podcast emphasizes that friendship is more about our thoughts than hard facts. The dynamic of adult friendships is explored, revealing how personal narratives shape our connections. By redefining what friendship means, listeners are encouraged to forge deeper bonds while also focusing on self-love as a tool for building meaningful relationships.
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Friendship Is a Thought
- Friendship is a thought, not a fact, meaning it's based on personal interpretation rather than objective proof.
- We carry unconscious expectations about friendships that shape how we define and experience them.
Caller’s Friendship Loss Experience
- A caller shared losing three close friends due to political and vaccination differences during a tough time.
- This loss led to social anxiety and difficulty forming new friendships, feeling something vital is missing.
Expectations and Friendship Cycles
- Expectations unspoken in friendships create the foundation but can cause feelings of rejection if unmet.
- When feeling rejected, people often stop being friends themselves, fueling distancing cycles.