Why it’s better to focus on being a great dater, great lover and enjoying your life and your experiences with members of the opposite sex, instead of focusing on finding or meeting “the one” and how this actually leads to unhealthy attachments, obsession and rejection.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who is starting to delude himself into believing that he has finally met “the one” perfect girl for him to be the answer to all of his relationship fantasies. He is projecting his dating fantasy onto this woman and starting to ignore the reality of her situation, the way she really is and how she treats him. He’s putting her on a pedestal and starting to be extra nice, beta male and submissive so he does not screw things up. However, she is recently out of an eight-year relationship with the father of her child. He’s starting to over-pursue and focus on what he is not getting from her. He also says he wants to start helping other people with their dating life before he has actually learned what to do himself. I give him a reality check and tell him what he really needs to focus on so he can achieve the success he wants for himself, and so he will be able to help other people effectively down the road if he chooses to become a coach.
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Corey Wayne