Soul Salon with Ayandastood 63: you fear what you crave: to be seen. it's time.
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Feb 3, 2025 Dive into the complexities of visibility and the fears that keep us hidden. Explore how childhood wounds and societal pressures shape our reluctance to shine. Discover the paradox of craving to be seen while fearing exposure, alongside insights from Audre Lorde. Embrace your unique gifts and step out of your protective shell. This discussion encourages radical acceptance and collective healing, urging you to break free and share your magic with the world.
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Childhood Wounds Block Visibility
- Your fear of visibility often stems from deep childhood wounds like bullying and shame.
- These past experiences create a protective shell that dims your light and expression.
Desire for Loving Visibility
- You deeply love being seen but only when you are lovingly witnessed.
- True visibility means being celebrated and accepted without judgment or shame.
Let Go of Envy and Hierarchies
- Release envy and hierarchical judgments about who deserves visibility.
- Practice daily love to embrace others' successes while pursuing your own visibility.
