Test Match Special The Ashes: John Aiken - from first-class cricketer to 'Married at First Sight' love guru
Dec 12, 2025
John Aiken, a former first-class cricketer from New Zealand and now a relationship expert on 'Married at First Sight', shares his fascinating journey. He discusses his transition from cricket to clinical psychology and how reality TV transformed his career. John reflects on memorable opponents like Brian Lara and Brendan McCullum, and dives into the challenges of public scrutiny after gaining fame. He also contrasts his analytical cricket mindset with his role on TV, where he provides candid relationship advice, proving his versatility beyond the pitch.
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From Psychologist To Global TV Figure
- John Aiken describes his unexpected rise from private-practice psychologist to global TV figure after auditioning for Married at First Sight in 2014.
- He says the show exploded from a tiny six-episode run to a multi-series phenomenon that changed his life.
Early Cricket Highs And Dressing-Room Trials
- John recounts his decade as a first-class cricketer for Wellington and Auckland, including a debut hundred and 150 not out against Canterbury.
- He recalls initial locker-room hazing and gradually earning respect after big innings.
Stop Overthinking When Performing
- Get out of your head to perform better; overanalysis slowed John down as a cricketer.
- He recommends staying present to keep calm and avoid self-sabotage during performance.