
That Hoarder: Overcome Compulsive Hoarding #207 13 actionable pieces of mental health advice from six former podcast guests
Dec 12, 2025
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This episode, I’ve pulled together the best mental health advice from every guest I spoke to over the past year - academics, therapists, organisers, and people with lived experience. Each of them shared a personal habit or practice that genuinely helps them cope or keep on top of their wellbeing, and I add a couple of my own strategies too.
Whether you’re navigating hoarding, supporting someone who is, or just looking for affordable ways to protect your own mental health, stick around for a mix of practical, honest tips to try for yourself.
- Special Episode Format: Compilation of Guest Advice
- Throughout the year, every guest was asked about habits or practices supporting their mental health.
- Guest Contributions: Mental Health Habits and Practices
- Harriet Impey (Episode 172)
- Mindfulness and meditation, especially mindful self-compassion (inspired by Kristin Neff).
- Practical examples: Being present, guided meditation, practicing non-attachment, and self-reflection on letting go of unhelpful arguments.
- Dr Jan Eppingstall (Episodes 174 & 204)
- Practicing gratitude to counterbalance negativity bias.
- Unsubscribing from unwanted emails to reduce anxiety and overwhelm.
- Interacting with pets for grounding and emotional well-being - petting animals as a stress reliever.
- Visiting places where animals are accessible (e.g., city farms, pet shops, animal cafes).
- Jasmine Sleigh (Episode 175)
- Importance of good sleep for mental health.
- Value of pleasurable activities like reading, and the paradox of sometimes resisting enjoyable activities (self-sabotage).
- Reflection on how engaging in enjoyable pastimes is essential even when it's difficult to get started.
- Sam (Episode 178)
- Writing things down: Keeping lists of achievements and things to be grateful for, even small joys.
- Acknowledging how gratitude doesn’t have to be grand - simple moments count.
- Exercise, particularly running, or any activity that gets you outside of your current headspace (could be walking, volunteering, etc.).
- The role of support from others to prompt new perspectives or activities.
- Dr. Victoria Ruby-Granger (Episode 179)
- Self-awareness and accepting what works for you, rather than trying to fit yourself to methods that don’t suit.
- Emphasis on letting go of approaches that don’t align with your own needs, and being open to alternative strategies.
- Carrie Lagerstedt (Episode 183)
- Moral neutrality: Separating self-worth from issues like executive dysfunction, lateness, and messiness.
- Reframing these traits as value-neutral rather than personal failings, helping to build self-esteem.
- That Hoarder
- Creative self-expression: Resentful journaling, collage, and visual arts—done primarily for personal expression, not for others’ approval.
- Permission for creative works to be imperfect and focused on process over outcome.
- Nature connection: Getting outside, paying attention to natural details (flowers, leaves, colours, wildlife), and practicing mindful observation to foster grounding and perspective.
- Importance of self-compassion, giving oneself credit for small achievements (especially with meditation or walks).
- Allowing yourself pleasurable, nurturing, or healing activities without guilt.
- Noticing the bigger world and natural cycles as a counter to internal struggles.
- Encouragement for listeners to reflect on which practices resonate and to share their own tips.
Links
- Podcast ep 172: Harriet Impey on clearing out her parents’ very full home, through family belongings and personal growth, in the film Where Dragons Live
- Podcast episode 174: How to feel grounded when we’re overwhelmed or dysregulated using ventral vagal spaces and touchstones, with Dr Jan Eppingstall
- Podcast ep 175: Taking the scary first steps: the courage to call a professional organiser, with Jasmine Sleigh
- Podcast ep 178: Growing up in a hoarded home: Sam’s story as the child of a Mum who hoards
- Podcast ep 179: How hoarding behaviours develop and early intervention for hoarding disorder, with Dr Victoria Ruby-Granger
- Podcast ep 183: ADHD, executive dysfunction and creating hacks and systems to reduce clutter chaos, with Carrie Lagerstedt
- Podcast ep 204: Am I my things? When possessions define us: the psychological connection between identity, self-concept and hoarding with Dr Jan Eppingstall
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