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Ashis Roy, "Intimacy in Alienation: A Psychoanalytic Study of Hindu-muslim Relationships" (Yoda Press, 2024)

Oct 12, 2025
Ashis Roy, a psychoanalyst and author, dives into his groundbreaking work on Hindu-Muslim relationships. He explores the often taboo desires between these communities and the social repercussions, including parental rejection and social death. Roy discusses how intimacy can serve as a healing site amidst the trauma of partition. He delves into the contrasts of forbidden love versus familial acceptance, revealing the complex dynamics in interfaith couples. Through personal anecdotes and psychoanalytic insights, he illuminates the significance of recognition and shared identity in their struggles.
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INSIGHT

Couples As Testbeds For Coexistence

  • Roy frames Hindu-Muslim couples as a site to imagine communal coexistence beyond political partition.
  • He began researching after recognizing his own unexpected negative feelings toward Muslims and wanting to understand them.
INSIGHT

Negative Identity Explains Forbidden Choices

  • Roy uses Erikson's 'negative identity' to explain acting into what one's community forbids.
  • He shows this concept helps map hyperpolitical fantasies (e.g., 'love jihad') but is insufficient alone.
ADVICE

Use Psychoanalysis As A Research Method

  • Use psychoanalysis both inside the clinic and as a research method outside it to study social realities.
  • Blend analytic listening with academic methods to access deeper cultural meanings.
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