Think you could handle working in a professional dungeon? In this episode of The Kink Consultant, I’m back with Mistress Verna for Part 2 of our behind-the-scenes look at life as retired dominatrixes. We’re digging into how this work helped us explore and define our sexuality, the boundaries we had to build to stay safe, and the trust it took to thrive in a job built on power exchange.

We swap stories about some of our most unforgettable clients, what we learned about ourselves through this work, and whether we’d actually recommend dungeon life to someone curious about going pro. Spoiler alert: it’s not for the faint of heart, but it definitely gave us tools we still use to this day.

Tune in to hear what it really takes to be a pro dom, beyond the latex and fantasy, and why this career path changed how we see sex, power, and ourselves.

Episode Highlights:

02:34 Learning and Growth in the Dungeon

10:30 Unique Client Stories and Advice

21:55 Unusual Requests and Experiences

24:59 Building Friendships and Skills

30:59 Reflections on Being a Dominatrix

37:17 Advice for Aspiring Dominatrixes

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